Just a Thought

There is something I've realized in the past few days, something that I wish I had thought of months ago. I don't need a man in my life, sure its nice for the companionship and of course the sex. But being single means you don't have to worry about what your boyfriend is doing, is he going to be free later, will he like what I'm wearing, there are tons of things couples worry about and mostly its the women who do the worrying. I don't have to look nice for anyone but me, and that is awesome. I find I dress up more now because I want to look nice, just for me. I've spent so many months stewing over a man who dumped me, asking why? It doesn't matter the why of it in the end. Getting an answer didn't make me feel any better, just produced more questions and more pain. So the conclusion I've come to is: Men complicate things and I don't need one in my life.